Sunday, 9 December 2012

Slack Sunday? Maybe not

Although I feel like juz wanna slack at home on Sunday but I kinda did it on Saturday, so ...went to IKEA with family. Nice food for dinner today! Then even have time to Moo Cow Yum! We went to Ikea at evening so quite late, but manage to see the christmas decorations at The Curve. :) Quite big christmas tree and it was more beautiful at night time :D






And next...Juz can't wait to see wats going to happen on the end of the world. Ya, its coming. 21 december.
Monday blues tomorrow again :) 


Saturday, 10 November 2012

Doing things alone?

so when you hang out with your friends lesser, you just have to learn to do things alone or else
Nothing can be done if you were to wait for friends to hang out with you to get those things done.

In the past, I would feel weird doing things alone. If. I can't find friends to go movie with me, I won't  go alone.i would rather just sit at home and do other stuff and wait for friends to hang out again.
But now I realize, if you just wait for them, nothing can be done...so I'm
Learning to do things alone.

Like ?

Hmm eat alone? I.ve done tat once or twice in the past,  eating alone at mcdonalds, and sushi king
It's really weird..and awkward haha.  now, no I have not eaten alone yet since I always have my colleague to eat with. But I should , just o and get the food I want to eat instead of compromising with my colleague on what to eat Or the other way,...lol cause some days , we just dun't have the same food on our mind for a. Lunch.

It's funny how I pity the people I saw eating alone in a restaurant when I'm young.
I thought that they are a weirdo and maybe no friends and look so sadddddd..
But I realize, no they are just trying to get enjoy their meal and it's normal!

Shopping alone.? I find it extremely nice to shop alone, and although sometimes its weird too. But I always go shopping alone, I just walk in to a shop, grab some clothes I like and try it..or maybe buy it! Probably the most often thing I done alone ! I can walk in to many shops just to buy pants without worrying my friends is bored waiting for me.


Movie alone?  Nope haven done that yet, but will be. I was lucky to find a friend to watch sky fall James bond movie with me laz weeek. Sometimes there are movies that I wanna see, but when I ask my friends, they can't make it, I will jut wait for the dvd, or if they dun feel like watching that movie, and have other choices in their mind, I will just go with it. And so I miss out the movies I wanna see.

And I think next time, I should Juz go watch movie alone.. Buy the ticket, grab popcorn, and just go
Sides, it's cheaper on weekdays, and I don't think I can find anyone to movie with me.
Well unless, I decided to save money and just wait for DVD to download..

Yet laz time, I even laugh at my bro for going movie alone after work, lol but now I realize if you have to wait for a friend for that, maybe you won't able to get into the cinema ayear!


Next movie alone !

So how often do you hang out with your friends?

So I saw this article and I find it interesting. The  question how often do you hang out with friends?
Well, I kinda hangout with my friends almost everyday during college.
But once, you start working, we hang out with friends lesser.
Because sometimes you feel like just lying on your bed on the weekends.
Or sometimes, you just can't find someone to hang out with.
Everyone seems to be very busy with their own stuff, studying, exams, working, hanging out with
Classmates or course mates.
BUut since most of my friends are still in studying phase .... It's still ok, but class, assignments and exams will still make them very busy.NOt to mention, the time is very flexible for them.
While when you work, you only have your time free during night. So it's harder for a to hangout with friends.

so I  hangout with my friends every few months maybe 2-3 months. Might sounds long and miserable if in the past, but nw it's completely ok and fine :).  Because I can sometimes enjoy my own company

Monday, 20 August 2012

Days like this

It was rainign yesterday.Feels good. Bye bye hot weather. Woke up quite early to catch a tv program. Early as in 10 am. Well, i went to sleep at 4 am the other night.

Then I juz watch dramas and hangout with internet. Went to Giant then. It was raining quite heavily when we decided to go back. So i bought ice-cream. The best thing you can do when its raining and its cold is buy a freakin ice-cream. Haha.

So i bought this weird looking Panda ice-cream. Obviously i've been cheated by the nice panda on the packaging. Is this even a panda? ==~~

For dinner, its cooking time.XD
Simple ingredients. 
Simple steps
And after 10-15 min, i got food to eat for me and my sis. Lol. Lazy type of cooking XD

Sunday, 19 August 2012

What if you only had one day to love. Before I Fall.

Staying indoor recenlty. Manage to finish a wonderful novel book. Its preety sad cause I finished it and lets just say that the ending is not that happy either. Its a realistic ending. There's no hope.But the story is defitenly good and unpredictable :) Glad I bought this " Before I fall" by Lauren Oliver.

Defitenely make you think about your life in a different perspective. Focus on you present time instead of the past or future. Wouldn't knw if there's a tomorrow for you.Never knw when might be our laz day.
 




 

Six Types of Friends You’ll NEVER See over Summer Break 

link:
http://collegecandy.com/2010/07/15/the-six-types-of-friends-youll-never-see-over-summer-break/#idc-cover

1.The Facebooker (or The Texter)

2.The In-Class Friend:

3.The Girl Who’s Always Working: 

4.The Hideaway:

5.The Girl Who Got a Boyfriend at College:

6.The Annoying One You Choose Not to See:  

 

Saw this article and its quite true. I got friends listed in all those 6 types :)
 Which sometimes might leads to, well,


  Maybe not. We all have fake friends. So its fine :D as long as we knw who.  

Thursday, 16 August 2012

weird update

These few days, been working Overtime. Till 8.30-9 pm since its company's peak season.
Manage to read my book and slowly enjoying it. And that's it for now. I got nothing in my mind now.

Thursday, 2 August 2012

Facebook addiction

I almost forgot about the existence of the blog until I decided to reduce my Facebook time.And I read a few interesting article about Facebook addiction,which leads me to consider reducing my fb time. 

1. http://articles.cnn.com/2009-04-23/health/ep.facebook.addict_1_facebook-page-facebook-world-social-networking?_s=PM: HEALTH

2. http://news.yahoo.com/6-signs-youre-addicted-facebook-205345564.html

6 Signs You're Addicted to Facebook
  • You spend a lot of time thinking about Facebook or plan use of Facebook.
  • You feel an urge to use Facebook more and more.
  • You use Facebook to forget about personal problems.
  • You have tried to cut down on the use of Facebook without success.
  • You become restless or troubled if you are prohibited from using Facebook.
  • You use Facebook so much that it has had a negative impact on your job/studies.

And an every interesting analysis on Facebook 
 http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2011/02/30-day-facebook-fast/

     1.  Facebook communication is mostly low-priority noise.
      2.  Impulse sharing comes with a price.
      3.  Friends lose their individuality and become part of a collective.
      4.  Facebook creates a false and an unsatisfying sense of socializing.
      5.  Facebook is computer interaction, not human interaction.
      6.  A friend isn’t necessarily a “friend”.
      7.  Facebook is ruled by addicts.
      8.  Facebook is lazy socialization.
      9.  Facebook is an expensive way to increase visibility.
     10. Try a 30-Day Facebook Fast
           ( Well, you might have to read the link above to get what it means.)


Well, after reading this, it is quite certain that I have Facebook addiction. The first thing I
check on my computer is Facebook. (Check). I often think what to write on my status update.
( I only realize this when I started reducing/deactivate my fb.) And it's bad and some other points.

So I'm in my progress on reducing my Facebook time.I will still be checking out Facebook when
people message me or tagged me or write on my post.

Other than that, I guess I should spend my time elsewhere than reading what others are
thinking on Facebook.

 

 

 

 


Friday, 27 January 2012

Wednesday, 25 January 2012

Chinese New Year


Chinese New Year. Sounds like a big day right? Well not so for me. I'm not
really getting excited for Chinese New Year but the holidays. Anyway, this year
Chinese New Year turns out to be fine and ok. Not too busy and not too bored
too. Well, I didn't went to any special place for vacation. Just visiting some
relatives houses and relatives coming to my house for a sort-of- reunion dinner,
steamboat. yummy?

Chinese New Year is the time when you kind of get the opportunity to meet
our relatives. You know, meet up and catch up. My relationship with my cousins,
well can be said as OK. When we were younger and smaller, we always meet up
and talk to each other. But as time goes by, we all grown up and have our own
social, then we meet up lesser and lesser. And so does our relationship.

I did not talk much meeting aunties and uncles. I just preferred to listen to
their conversation. Its quite interesting. They talked bout their life recently,
how the children are growing up (my cousins), whether are they gonna
continue study for a diploma or degree or to start work after high school,
or maybe about some more distant relatives, whether have they married or
have new-born children,or how bad the economic laz year that its getting
hard to survive in this bloody earth. Financial problem. Yeah.

Or you can get to hear the topic of someones wife or someones girlfriend/
boyfriend stuff. Whether have they changed their bf or gf or anyone has
new date! or father-son story. Complicated family bond story just like
those hokkien drama we always see inthe tv.

And of course, listening to all these topics= gossips from the relatives
( the adults) keeps me entertained. At the same time, reminds me of
how life is going too be in the future for me.......................its nt that bright.

It was hearing those things that avoided me from boredom. Well least
i found outthat, my cousins having their new gf or bf at quite young age.
And my aunt and uncle knew it and they just go with it. Interesting.
Well they never asked bout me anyway. Not that it matters.:)

Ya, some cousins are having baby...and many niece popping out from
nowhere with my knowledge . I'm becoming aunty...almoz too many times
..seing my niece grow reminds me hw old  I am getting year by year. Yup
we are getting older. Which reminds me that i am graduating soon. Very soon.










Thursday, 19 January 2012

Introduction

This should be my erm.. ok i lost count.I deleted my previous blog which was I failed to update
for few months? Ok maybe a few years. 
Having a blog is like a commitment. You got to keep
updating it or else it would be a dead blog that 
then goes in to the rubbish dump or the button
"delete this blog"- which I always end up doing.



Anyway with this new blog at 2012, yes 2012, can't believe that. I hope this blog will not be
in the rubbish dump again. Let's hope this blog will not have the same fate as the previous.

I will make sure i keep updating this blog. Would like to share my opinion in certain thoughtful
stuff 
which i think interesting? Or maybe my lame life.  


So hey there. Welcome to my blog :D 
Customized my blog. Keep it simple and clean using only the shades of black and grey.